Being Blessed

So its a calm day, there is a slight breeze that is just beautiful in every way, as I walk along the beach, my eyes turn to the beautiful sunset that is before me, it is in times like these, when we see those special moments, so as we walk, we all walk a different path, going different directions, as long as you have someone by your side, the path that you take will not be a hard one,

There by the garden you can see the beauty in a rose, finding time to relax and enjoy life is hard sometimes we as human beings are a lot of times busy, but when we do have those moments to stop, and dance, and picture the night sky, morning sky, and evening sky, it is a wonderful thing to be blessed with nature around,

Don’t Give Up

Keep pressing forward to the goals that you have set for yourself, and when someone tears you down, build yourself up its like this story I once told, to a group of people, two men were waiting for the train to come, one of the men were having a very bad day, and decided to let his frustrations out on the man next to him, the man glancing over, said do you need something to the man that was bothering him, the man said I just need to tell you off right now, the other man replied why is that, talk to me,

Isn’t it strange that these two men never met, yet one of them was willing to be the bigger person, and be kind to the man that was being a real pain in the neck, thats how life is sometimes with the problems we face, some of the problems we face are a pain in the neck, but we can always look at kindness, and try to understand, that we are all human, and the way we deal with a problem will determine the outcome of our relationship with others.

May We Honor

May we honor those brave soldiers that have fought for our country, for freedom, peace, liberty, and for prosperity of this great nation, may we never forget, that we share a common goal, of hope and freedom for every single human being on this beautiful earth, may we never forget that we are one’s that support the common cause of Freedom and Hope for all around,

May we always remember to hold dear those who gave their lives for our country, the reason why I have written this post is because my Uncle Phillip, was one that perished in the war, How my eyes fill with tears, everytime I think about those people who get a letter, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to each and everyone of you, never forget that these brave men and women who gave their lives so that we could have liberty, They are the reason why we are free. God Bless the soldiers and God bless those who gave their lives so we could be free.

Lets have a Laugh!!!!

Ok so here it goes, as you may know or may not, I love to laugh, it is shown in studies that laughter is sometimes the best medicine, just take it from the Movie, “Patch Adams” well whenever I am in conversation with someone depending on some of the topics I like to throw a joke in or two,

Its so rewarding to see laughter on the other person’s face, just to see their face light up is a true accomplishment to me, so my aunt and I sometimes when I come over we laugh it up, I mean there is not a dull minute when I am around my Aunt, so is this how we can mostly look at laughter, when the going gets tuff, sometimes you just need to laugh it off and move on, improve the situation your in to press on towards the goals that you have set for yourself,

The Card Game

Ok here it goes, do you ever feel sometimes in searching for that person that it takes a long time, like the way I think about is this, our life gets shuffled from time to time, and we deal with those certain changes that we make or that happen,

Its like looking through a card deck and you keep trying to find that special card in the deck, just like finding that special person in life, it takes time, don’t hurt yourself over it, live your life the best way you can, and pray about it, thats what I was talking about in the last post, what the p stood for was prayer, without prayer nothing can truly feel accomplished, so all in all find yourself in the beauty in everything you do, make sense let me know.

Music is my Life

Alright here it goes, whenever I have a bad day or am feeling down, I turn on some music, that is going to be upbeat and give me a sense of relief and to help me feel better, it never helped for a person that would get sad to listen to sad music because that only makes the person more sad, so you have to lift yourself out of the darkness that you may be in, whatever that may be whether its depression or just a typical sadness,

Love yourself, because you can never really be truly happy until you start loving yourself, find beauty in everything you do, go to work and greet people with a smile rather then a frown, lift yourself up, there are a lot of times I lay in my bed, saying to myself” Uh lol I don’t really want to go to work”, but push yourself to do and you feel a whole lot better after your done with work, and in all things if you love music, listen to it whenever you can, Make sense let me know,

The Meaning of Hope

Here’s what I believe is the meaning of Hope, H stands for healing because within hope there is healing, then there is the O that stands for Optimism, which is believing in the better, in the best that you can be, and then there is the P that stands for Prayer, because within prayer there is the element of finding a common cause of peace, and understanding,

The e stands for enlightening, because within the word of hope, after all these elements, there is the new you, that feels clearer in what you feel, all these elements have deep meaning and our ones that I follow by, never feel that you don’t have hope, because you can, believe for the better, and hope for the best, and you can do it with friends and family by your side, standing up for you and helping you with whatever your going through,

Be the Bigger Person

Ok lets say that someone affends you but doesn’t realize it until you bring it up to them, and you would like an apology from there, but they are too stuck up to realize and think that they don’t need to apologize for anything they have done to hurt you, this is what I believe you should do, be the bigger person, and do this, forgive them, treat them with kindness and the number one thing to do is to move on,

Because if you let it get to you it will eat you up inside, really I am being serious, and also if you hold it towards them its only hurting one person, and thats you, so be the better person, and move on, because once you move on, you see a clearer picture of who they really are, and when they travel on your path again, you can greet them with a smile rather then a frown, make sense let me know,

Also if the situation is not that bad, because I do understand some situations are more worse then others, the ones that aren’t that worst, laugh about it, studies have shown laughter increases your health, because it makes you an all around good person, I mean if you think about it if everyone went around with a frown on our face, our world would be a pretty depressing place, but not all of us are like that, thats why we are a very unique world,

Really Love them, Stop Complaining

Ok here it goes, lets say you really liked someone, and things started to work out, and by the time it was lets say a couple of years that you all had been going out and then decided to get married, that is by all means fine, but here’s what so many married couples have to realize, and its not for all, but its for those that want to complain rather then love,

If you really loved that person, wouldn’t even the little things they do that annoy you, Love would cover that wouldn’t it, I mean thats what it says in the Bible to some degree, think about it, if you spent all your time complaining rather then loving where would you be, really think about it, you wouldn’t really be living your life, you would be waisting your time complaining when you could be loving them for who they are, thats why we should love eachother, no matter what, even our friends, love them no matter what, does this make sense or am I wrong? Let me know?

The Coolest Part of Getting Rejected by Someone You Like

Ok here is the coolest part about getting rejected, its not over, just because someone rejects doesn’t mean that your not worth it, now listen I know it hurts, I don’t have that special someone right now, but what I am saying is have hope, and move forward, basically what that person is telling you when they reject you, is that well they don’t really care about you and would rather kiss a dolphin then go out with you, this is by all means fine, because guess what! you can move on from that,

You are better to move on, and say to yourself they are missing out on a really nice person, if thats who you truly are, I have said this to myself many times, because it helps me, sure you cry, you shed some tears, but you have to move on, and don’t get cocky about making yourself better, but remember you are worth everything, and you are a person that with determination will prevail, make sense, let me know.